Sometimes we have to say goodbye to people in our lives who don't belong there. It's hard. Especially when you are related.
You can spend your whole life trying to make that square peg fit into that round hole and you are going to get the same thing if you try to make the other person love you; putting in a lot of effort and getting nowhere.
Some souls just aren't meant to fit, so what do you do when you are related to that person who will never mesh with you? Well? Right, not so easy to solve is it?
So, what do you do? Well, what are the choices?
Continue to try to make this person love you.
Give up trying to make this person love you and live your life.
These are the only two choices. Oh, you can come up with other selections, but these are the only real choices.
Ok, now, you are going to try both you know, just human nature.
So you choose loser number 1, "Continue to try to make this person love you." How long do we think this will take?
What? You have no idea? So there is unlimited time for you to wait?
Oh no, we must have a limit. Surely at some point, you will realize this isn't going to work out. How long does that take? 1 week, 1 month, 1 year?
You don't want to make that decision because that means you move onto choice 2 and you will have to let this go. What will you do without this to guide you in your relationships? Honestly, it may make you a happier person!
Some souls are not meant to be together in this lifetime, regardless of whether they are in your orbit or not. Just because someone is in your life, doesn't mean that is where they are supposed to be. Maybe they were just meant to be in your life for a moment or a year or a lifetime, we won't know. We just have to live our lives and accept whatever role other people play in our lives.
If I have learned anything from this human experience it is that everyone has their own agenda and regardless of what relation they are to you, even a child, they have their own path and must follow it. If you aren't part of that, so be it. Let go and let their soul fulfill their life goal. Who knows, maybe someday they will come back and you can fulfill what you feel is your life goal.
If not, then you just have to say goodbye.
You can spend your whole life trying to make that square peg fit into that round hole and you are going to get the same thing if you try to make the other person love you; putting in a lot of effort and getting nowhere.
Some souls just aren't meant to fit, so what do you do when you are related to that person who will never mesh with you? Well? Right, not so easy to solve is it?
So, what do you do? Well, what are the choices?
Continue to try to make this person love you.
Give up trying to make this person love you and live your life.
These are the only two choices. Oh, you can come up with other selections, but these are the only real choices.
Ok, now, you are going to try both you know, just human nature.
So you choose loser number 1, "Continue to try to make this person love you." How long do we think this will take?
What? You have no idea? So there is unlimited time for you to wait?
Oh no, we must have a limit. Surely at some point, you will realize this isn't going to work out. How long does that take? 1 week, 1 month, 1 year?
You don't want to make that decision because that means you move onto choice 2 and you will have to let this go. What will you do without this to guide you in your relationships? Honestly, it may make you a happier person!
Some souls are not meant to be together in this lifetime, regardless of whether they are in your orbit or not. Just because someone is in your life, doesn't mean that is where they are supposed to be. Maybe they were just meant to be in your life for a moment or a year or a lifetime, we won't know. We just have to live our lives and accept whatever role other people play in our lives.
If I have learned anything from this human experience it is that everyone has their own agenda and regardless of what relation they are to you, even a child, they have their own path and must follow it. If you aren't part of that, so be it. Let go and let their soul fulfill their life goal. Who knows, maybe someday they will come back and you can fulfill what you feel is your life goal.
If not, then you just have to say goodbye.